Make Your Relationship Fail

"The Quality of Your Life Depends on the Quality of Your Relationships"

The most important relationship you will ever have is the one you have to yourself. From there all of your other relationships will be defined. When we heal the wounds that are destroying us from within, all of the other relationships in our lives will also heal. Taking action is the only thing that creates real change. Its starts with changing your mind but it works by changing your actions! No matter how bad your situation is or what has happened in the past you can overcome these things and when you do that ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE! Our story is living proof that things can change but its our story. Lets start today to change your story. Let's set up a time so we can talk about how to do just that!

"Trauma is not just what happens to the child, but also what doesn't happen to the child"

Growing up in the 70s, being raised by a single mom, was a challenging yet formative experience. My parents divorced when I was born as my father struggled with addiction. My mom, brother and I moved around frequently, which made stability and consistency hard to come by. My mom did her best to provide, but the constant upheaval and chaos left me with a sense of uncertainty and a distorted perspective of life. The absence of a father and the instability of our living situation shaped my early years and ultimately affected the way I approached relationships as I grew older. While it was extremely difficult at times, it also gave me a deep understanding of resilience and the importance of emotional survival in tough circumstances.

(Gabor Mate' childhood trauma expert)

We Failed - to - Learn and So Can You

From Restraining Order to Just Plain Order

What happened to my wife and I in 2024 I would not want anyone to have to go through. My hope is that I can help you heal your wounds before they destroy a relationship you care so much about. As a Certified Integrated Attachment Theory (IAT) Coach I use my knowledge and experience to help you overcome the subconscious thought patterns that are destroying your relationships. No matter how many times you have failed before or how big of a fail you may be experiencing now, there is hope. I know that taking action can change any situation. The picture you see to the right is us walking out of the courthouse the day the restraining order was lifted. Its also the day we began a NEW relationship. One that has become 1,000 times better than the one we had before. Our story is proof that it's ok to fail so long as you FAIL TO LEARN!